First off don't get hung up on the whole 380 vs. 9 battle with ammo and ballistics. Like one member here told me a while back, shot placement is key. If you re recoil sensitive and you think it may play a factor, then the 380 is the better choice. The recoil on my 380 completely fine.....heck i shoot a 45 on duty, and carry a 45 off duty in uniform.
Having to qualify off duty to carry, and shooting from the 25 yard line, I felt that the 380 would be the better choice, ESP when I run a combat and nighttime course? By the end of the day, I am putting @ 150 rounds through the gun. I have been told that there is a noticeable in recoil with the 9.
Personally I couldn't be happier with my 380. It's dead accurate within 15 yards, and at the 25 it's takes a bit more effort, but still manageable. While this is not meant to be a target gun, one never knows if the situation may present itself from a distance as opposed to up close and personal.
I got the Rohrbaugh for concealment carry due to its size. Either way, the Rohrbaugh is the way to go. Good luck with what ever model u decide to buy.
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