Let me know how the TFOs work for you. I've been thinking about getting some XDms in 45 for carry.
I have a pair of XD(m) 5.25s in 9MM which I'm very happy with in competition, but after shooting 3-D targets, I've become more interested in larger diameter bullets... Or, buy some in 40, and convert them to 357 Sig for better results against skulls.