Back to the original concern: Consider Brownell's friction tape as a replacement for the expensive stipling. I saw an article in a 2008 Gun Digest that shows this stuff being used on a compact 1911.
As to photographs from several of you, I thank you. The one that Richard posted (sans picitinny rail) is compelling, albeit expensive. The stainless gun, with beautiful wood grips, is great except it has the picitinny rail and I would avoid it for that reason.
There is no right or wrong answer here. However, if only for aesthetic reasons, I stand by my opposition to picitinny rails.