Just to update, I ran a tiny amount of Gun Butter down between the right side grip and the trigger bar, and the problem of the trigger sticking in the rearward position seem to have resolved itself for now. I would love to get that grip off, but, for the life of me, I cannot break those screws loose. I've cranked so hard on the allen head driver that I'm afraid it'll snap if I push it further.
Rohrbaugh responded to my e-mail query and said the .380 should digest any standard .380 ammo, but they went on to say that this is a custom gun and will like some ammo better than others.
The message also recommended "Winchester Silvertips 115 Gr. STHP and Speer Gold Dot 115 Gr. HP for carry and Federal American Eagle 115 Gr. FMJ for plinking 124 Gr. may
also be used for defense and plinking."
Obviously, those are 9mm loads, so they confused the two calibers there. So far the gun likes the 90 gr FHS, so I'll stick with that for now. I'll run 50-100 more rounds of the FHS through the pistol next time out, but at about a buck a pop, it's pretty pricey stuff to be "plinking" with. It'd be nice to use the cheaper FMJ ammo for range practice.