Bill,
I'd say it is all realitive.
Yes, the 32 has a bit of a sharp recoil to it, and I doubt that a novice would find it enjoyable to shoot. However, after time, you adjust, and become acustomed to the sharp recoil.
I should also state that sharp may even be to harsh a word to describe the felt recoil of the tiny pocket gun.
Next up, the LWS-380, yep, I have one, but have not fired it yet, but was told no big deal for a seasoned shooter. This comment came from my friend that owns both the LWS-32, and LWS-380.
I do own a R9, and shot that side by side with my LWS-32.
I experianced zero problems with the recoil. Never entered my mind.
That's another thing, concentrate on all your basics, and don't worry about the recoil. I think this is where "Dry Firing" as practice is very helpful.
That said, I still would not want to put several hundred rounds through each gun at the range in one day.Nor do I go out and shoot two hundred rounds of trap in the same day anymore,after the first two sessions, it hurts.