I have an older ParaOrd P12-45 and really like it. It gave me some problems early on but once I gave it a fluff'n'buff it's been 100% since. I also like Para's new DA trigger - it's very, very smooth. As for C&L, I wouldn't let it be a limiting factor. It is actually quite safe and, with training, will become second nature to you. With the thumb safety, grip safety, a good holster, and proper training, a 1911 is as safe as it gets.
The concern over 1911's is largely due to the cocked hammer 'looking' intimidating - the new safety by Cylinder & Slide is, IMHO, just window dressing - it does nothing to alter or enhance safety other than making it look less intimidating to the sheeple. The other concern, long since addressed - is a C&L discharging when dropped. Any gun can still theoretically have that happen but it's no longer as much of a concern due to modern safeties.