Just a little back on track. . . .
My father and his wife came into town and loved my R9. She is in the market for a small carry handgun and really loved the quality (especially the trigger pull). Price isn't a concern.
The issue she has is that she lacks the hand strength to chamber a round, so she will probably end up with a small revolver for carry. This may be a big turn off for some of the "older" women shooters, -she shoots regularly (and very well), but the recoil spring is just too much resistance for her. I hope the Rohrbaugh brothers think of this when they come out with a .380 version.
Dad may be getting his own R9 soon, though.