I always go with the deeper penetrating round.
It can make the difference between getting to vital tissue or not getting to vital tissue.
I have some control over where the bullet hits - I know that under stress it is not going to be the same as training, but my point is, I do have some control over where the shots hit. I have no control over how deeply the round penetrates.
The is an argument I guess that if a round expands an extra .02" it might make the difference between knicking an artery or not. So really thats a matter of being too right or left, high or low on the target.
My thinking is, I can correct for that with follow up shots. What I can't really correct for - short of a head shot, are rounds that are just not reaching deep enough to disrupt vital tissue.
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