Hi all, thanks for the nice replies! I didn't realize it had been since 2009! But hey, I still have my Rs and I'm very happy to see that the owner community is still very active.
Yes, the older of the two I have is a Farmingdale I got back in very early 2005. It has carbon fiber grips and sights. I was going through some of my stuff, pulled it out and it looks as cool now as it did the day I first opened it. I had packed it in gun grease and oil and that preserved it nicely.
I also have a stealth that I actually carry. I love the black slide. I know many people consider it a summer gun, but its so light and easy to conceal I carry it year round. Truthfully I prefer my Sig P239 in .40 for self defense, but its heavier and bigger. The R9 is just so easy.
Anyhow, it occurred to me that I don't need a pistol that sits in its case when my wife could use a nice .380. She is not a fan of recoil, and I know the R380 is a lock breech pistol just like the R9. It should be pretty light recoil-wise. So I thought maybe I would sell the older R9 and get her an R380.
Then again, maybe I should just get her the r380. Ya can't have too many guns, right? Hm, actually I probably can. The kid is going to college in 2 short years!
Thanks again everyone, its nice to be back.